It's all in the tweak

It seems I owe someone a little tweak, Dutchbitch a drop dead sexy lady like myself with many passions like myself tweaked me some time ago but it is just now she decides to tell the blogging world.
We had lunch together a week or so back and I just knew I should have got my nipple clamps out of my handbag and tweaked her there and then, I just knew it!! Instead we sat there and bitched out the whole place, from rude people standing right next to her talking as loud as anything while we were trying to talk and eat, to floating objects in my drink, to some serious fashion victims *shakes her head* never in my life had I seen a female with some seriously ugly black and white stripped pants with a totally different colour and "design" of strips in her top and the shoes *hand to forehead* though her baby poo scarf seemed to have done the trick topping it off!
So Dutchbitch thanks for the tweaking, oh my blog! I owe you baby! Yes it was my template she tweaked people!

Such a classic.

Dress Code

I am invited to a pre-Christmas dinner and I do not know what to wear, I am thinking of a "Christmas corset" or a skimpy dress, mind you the dress I am thinking of wearing it as a top and wear some nice black dress pants under it and obviously stilettos, though I will more then likely end up wearing jeans and a t-shirt lol.
so whats your vote ?

broken bones

I have a tendency to break bones, the little toe on my left foot has been broken more then a handful of times and the tally of broken bones I have had is getting close to the 30mark, so it will come as no surprise to you to say I have a cracked bone in my foot! Yes in my foot! I have no clue how it happened but it did, I can not recall hearing to much of a crack but I remember waking up with a lovely oversize foot, it did not stop me from putting my heels on though, all of 24hours!
So the ball of my foot is killing me for over a week now, I do not go out if I have to as I have no flat shoes to wear other then my jogging shoes and I have no desire or wish to be seen in public in anything but heels, the gym as an acceptation!
My lifesaver has come in the form of gel cushions it allows me to walk to the car, do some shopping, and not cry in public from the pain. I know I am suborn and I know it will heal faster if I stop wearing my heels, the price I am willing to pay huh? it is getting better I have just been shopping for over 3 hours and only now the ball of my foot is hurting.
Yes maybe only another week ? pfffff

Interesting handbag

Today after having a drink with a friend in a cafe I pulled out my lipstick and applied it, my handbag is only a small shoulder bag (the picture makes it look huge but its not) she was amazed with everything I could fit in it, I laughed and said to her "oh yes everything I need is here in this handbag"
We sat there in the cafe and emptied our handbags, she had a handbag full of receipts, cookie crumbs, lose candy floating around in there and candy wrappers, some coins, drivers licence, purse, gsm, hair elastics and yes some lipstick, goodness knows what else, she decided that was a good time to clean it and by the time she finished throwing the junk away she said "Wow so much space"
I started to empty mine, call me anal but it is very well organised
I pulled out
-My note book and pen
-2 lipsticks and a lip gloss
-Some tampons (you would be amazed how many time I am asked for them also)
-My purse
-Business card holder
-Gsm
-A hair stick
-Perfume
-Passport
-Drivers licence
-Small tube of haircare (to stop the frizz)
-Stockings (Yes a must as I am always walking into shoe shops trying on stilettos)
-Nipple clamps

Yes my friend seemed to be in shock I could fit this all into my handbag, I smiled at her and said with a grin "Told you everything I would ever need"
The conversation moved side ways towards the nipple clamps, she is not into the lifestyle at all and asked what they were, I gave them to her in her hand and pointed to the toilet after I explained what they were, When she some back she had a huge smile on her face and asked where she could buy them.
Oh my work here on earth is not done, not by far, she is also the same person I converted a few weeks ago to stilettos, ok she is starting low heeled but loving every minute of it.

It's all about

I have many conversations with Dominants, Females and Males it amazes me how many do not have a clue, A clue about many aspects which are very important in this lifestyle, including lack of knowledge to do with the human body, my goodness somethings they say they do I am surprised they have not killed anyone yet!
Anyways I am off track of the point I want to cover here. I find it strange how so many Dominants will not even give a second glance to someone if they say they are new and exploring the lifestyle from every angle. I do not know why this is and the answers I get from the Dominants when I ask them why they do not want to be with a beginner the answer I get is "I do not have the time to train them or the desire to train them" , I myself find the beginners the most interesting.
Here is my 2 cents worth, submission comes from the heart, if you have it there naturally then there is no training now is there? the basis it there, the only things you need to "train" them in is how YOU as the Dominant like to be pleased, As stated above, I believe submission comes from the heart and stems out, expressing itself through the bodies actions, every category of submission, from sissy to pain slut.
Do not come to me as an "experienced" submissive and TELL ME what you want or inform me "Well my ex Mistress done it this way" good for you, you learnt how she liked to be pleased, it does not mean I like it that way also! Do not top me from the bottom boy!
As where a beginner is just so open to everything, had little or no experience and they just want to please, do anything to please, ok they tell you things they fantasies about and it is always nice to remember that as 1 thing I tell everyone I meet, I do not punish with spankings, no, I punish with ignoring you, now if you please me, then you get a reward, you never know maybe you please me very well and I let you pick the reward ;-)
So here is the bottom line people.
Come with no expectation and you will not be let down.

Mary Sunshine

I am sure most of you know about Mary Sunshine, well if you don't you now do, wait for the end and "shut up bitch" enjoy **smiles**

Can't believe my eyes!

Today I went out into the city center to run a few errands, while having a break from all the window shopping and running errands I sat at a "sub-way" yes I really did, and while having a bread I was looking out the window, Anyone who knows me knows I could sit in a cafe all day sipping on a drink and watching the world pass by, Today was the worst ever! it seriously was.
MMmmm lovely stiletto's HOLY SHIT WHAT IS THAT???
MMmmm totally stunning boots, stiletto heel WHAT THE FUCK???
Black, high and OMG!!!
All these capital letters are not a good thing!
Seems a lot of females are starting to wear stilettos, must be the season for it, but what the hell is it with them wearing their stilettos to DEATH??? my black ones posted here I wear just about daily and it is time for their 5000km check up, YES I get them taken care of, I love them so much, the heels DO need changing, yes no matter how skinny or fat you are there is a tonne of weight on your heels and they will wear down, now listen and listen close females!!
The rubber padding on the heels DO NEED REPLACING!!! If you a loud click when you are walking they are worn out it's past the rubber and your actual heel is hitting the pavement damn it, its the metal from the heel itself for gods sake, When they are as bad as the ones I seen today it is past bitch slapping you, you need the stiletto hammered into your head! Put you both out of your misery.
I seen females today with the fabric all around the bottom of the heel so ripped that I could see the metal heel, fabric all ripped off the bottom flapping in the wind and the clicking sound, oh my goodness, I do not know if this is making me mad, sad or sick.

Hotel and objects.

Here I am sitting in a hotel room trying not to throw the laptop out the window because it is so darned slow and all I can think of is, why the hell is there no slave here to serve me??
There is a certain object that I could really use right now, carve them up and see their blood flowing onto the white tiled floor in the bathroom, then fill the bath with salt water until they lose consciousness from their hollow screams muffled in the cloth gag I shoved in their mouth.
Flog them for hours till I get tired then go to bed and leave them a blubblering mess on the floor till morning, well I am heading off to bed now and lets see if the Edgeplay fairy leaves me a slave to wake up to!

Tremor's and Trampled

It is only Sunday but yet it feels like my weekend has been long and relaxing which is a good thing. You see it all started late Friday afternoon.
A Castle a Queen (yes me) and a tall blond haired male, a lot of walking and talking around the castle it was very pleasant, very relaxing, then I was tired and went home, I had arranged the next day for a shopping day, we hit Almere and to my surprise in such a big city and in the all shoe shops there was nothing at all interesting for me to buy and believe me I looked and looked hard. I ventured into many book shops as well, the one with me kneeling to read the titles on the bottom shelf obviously ;-) it is amazing how just little things can seem so innocent to the outside world but when you know different, it gives you that little buzz, I think it was about a total of 6 times he had the urge to drop to his knees while we were out on Saturday.
After all the window shopping I decided it was time to go bowling, yes bowling, so as we made our way into the bowling alley, when we entered as far as the eye could see there was an ocean of 5-6year old screaming kids, I do not think so, someone would have ended up killed as they were running riot with no supervision so the cinema it was!!! We drove all the way to Amsterdam and we watched The Bourne Ultimatum, during the movie I just had this itch and I had to itch it so I lent over and tweaked his nipple from that point on I think he lost the plot, I could have sworn there was an earth quake in the cinema, he was shaking like a leaf on a tree and the sweaty palms, my goodness, you could physically see him shaking, I think I shake less in belly dancing lessons I casually wiggled my way into one corner of my chair so I could put my feet up and rest them in his lap, I was comfortable but I made sure every now and then to adjust myself in my chair so I could raise my leg placing my heel on his testicles and having a nice little trample. By the end of the movies he had sensitive nipples and trampled testicles, it is amazing how things can not be seen or look so innocent when there is much behind the action. There is something I do regret, due to the fact I knew we were going to Almere and walking on stones all day I did not wear stilettos I had on some high heeled boots but ha well not stiletto, next time will be different, cinema and stilettos, So who wants to go to the cinema with me?

On the Hunt

Yes I am on the hunt but no not for a submissive, Am on the hunt for more Mistress's well any female as a matter of fact, let me explain.
I know/have this object, formally a human with rights, who needs a beating, spanking, cutting, spitting, slapping, stiletto trampling, come take your pound of flesh he has enough, what can I say, it is an object, and it is time I had a party, 1 object and as many females as possible, bring your severe and extreme side to the party everything else is catered for.
leave a reply or email me on Ms.Severity@gmail.com for more details. oh just in case you are interested it is a very handsome object and I am willing to send pictures not that it matters seeing it will be a bloody mess after we are finished with it!

Make Me!!!

How to make a Severity

Ingredients: 3 parts anger 5 parts courage 5 parts energy

Method: Stir together in a glass tumbler with a salted rim. Add a little curiosity if desired!

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Personality cocktail
From Go-Quiz.com

Trick or treat?

The Trick- Getting cloths to still fit.
The Treat- buying new things when the old ones do not fit anymore.

Yes it is just about Halloween and I am very upset! I picked out what I wanted to wear for Halloween some weeks ago but now it has all changed, it has to change due to the fact I have lost so much weight, I have the corset that is in this cute little costume but the fact is the corset is now pulled fully closed , it has the ribbon at the front so I can still work it a little and it can look ok, though I am a little unsure, wonder also if the look is a little to innocent for me **chuckles** you know with my ever so sweet innocent looking face!
I will have to think it over as I can not even use a different corset I have because they are all the same on me, any other ideas for costumes people? Was thinking of going as a Dominatrix but then I will just want to flog everyone in sight plus there is no one to take with me to wear a dog collar and on a lead. Need to look the part you know **evil laugh**

Give or take

So how much should a person spend on stockings?
Today I **thinks** wanted some new stockings, I wear them on a daily basis so how much it so much?
I am glad I am not asking this about stiletto's as there is no price you can put on class, style femininity and I feel the same goes for stockings, so needless to say my investment on 25euro was well worth it today, lets just see how long they last before I get a hole in them.

wow 1 week

Wow it has been close to a week since I last posted, guess my life is a little boring.
As some of you know I am getting into shape (I hope) been going to the gym, attempting to jog, yes without stiletto's.
Right now I am doing well, the first week was a killer and zero results now it is getting easier, just like learning to use a flogger, after so many hits it is routine lol
Another reason I have not posted is because I have been digging into my head, I have a poem sitting there and it is a matter of if I want to dare to put it here.
On a different note, I took a lovely picture of me the other day and am on the borderline of sharing it, only a face pic so down boys lol... what do you think share it? Nahhh most of you are on my msn and seen it anyways

wrong Wrong WRONG!!!!

It is wrong, totally against the law!

I have been looking for so long for **licks lips** BLOOD red stiletto's and it is starting to make me angry! I can not even find any good stiletto's anywhere at the moment, the last half decent ones I seen were the boots and they are not good enough to be seen fulls, only under dress pants.
I think it is time to take a trip to Rotterdam, To go to a shop for Goddess's I love their website, They have some amazing shoes and it is worth the trip there, the only things is I am scared, Yes I am scared to go there, Why you may ask? I am scared my credit card will not survive the trip, So anyone out there got a card that will? **chuckles** donations accepted!

On a lighter note

Well after the last post I thought something on a lighter note well that is the plan but not sure if it works as I never know what I end up typing.
Here is a picture of my nails that seem to want to taste blood, as you can see they are in well need of a manicure and I plan on getting one after the gym on Wednesday, so maybe I need to book in for it on the Thursday UNLESS, there is one of you out there who like to give a good manicure???

Dare to know ?

My life is an open book I have nothing to hide, What I say to people when they ask " May I ask you a question" my answer is always "My life is an open book only the game dare turn the pages"
So this post is for the game who dare to know something about me, I know some of you will have what I say as a hard limit, others do not like it and then there is the small small handful like myself that even the thought gets me so excited that I need to change me under clothing!
I will be blunt so there is not confusion here and then I shall give some explaining.
I love to choke, breath control, I love blood play, I love edgeplay.
Now lets break it down for you in why I love these things, if I even know myself.
Choking : I love to choke a male, it is at it's best when there has been endgeplay and blood involved **chuckles** The feeling it gives me that someone I am with trusts me to the extent that they will allow me to put my hands around their throat, their life in my hands, trusting me not to take their life (getting wet just thinking about it)
Breath Control : Oh which in my books choking falls under but choking does need a section for itself as I just cream at the thought, As I cream after I have run my stiletto all over a submissives body, in and out of it, flicking my shoe off, tracing my hands up my leg, slowly removing my stocking, letting him sniff it and then placing the stocking around his neck and tightening it, what ? he makes a sound, no problem, panties are a great gag!
Placing a foot over the neck is also lovely, but not as delicious as placing a stiletto oer their throat and pressing down Mmmmm **this post is getting me all worked up**
Smothering is another favourite, and I was well blessed with larger sized chest, and an over sized arse, so I better use it to my advantage before I lose weight.
Hands over the mouth and nose when making them look into your eyes, OMG it is... ohh yes it is... **shakes head and comes back down to earth**. Ok next subject as I now need a cold shower hmm or my little black book.
Bloodplay : Wow blood play, I love it in many forms most of all I love to scratch my long strong nails down a submissives body over and over cutting and scratching him, seeing blood slowly seeping out of his well formed and shaped mortal parts, having his blood, the liquid of life in my hands and under my nails is a rush within itself! My stiletto heels to also cut into his flesh, to have his blood on my footwear, he may lick it off but I will again cover my stilettos with his blood and let it dry, I will wear his blood on my worshiped footwear in public, making sure he knows it as well ! The depth I can go into bloodplay and breathplay/control is deep, it is much deeper then I will say here, as stated above, only the game dare turn the pages.
Edgeplay : This is a strange subject also it depends on who you talk to, to what they think edge play is. Wikipedia gives some listings of which some call edgeplay worth reading but it also says : In BDSM, edgeplay is a subjective term for types of sexual play that are considered to be pushing on the edge of the traditional safe, sane and consensual creed. It is nearly universally held that these forms of BDSM activity should not be attempted without proper supervision, safety precautions, etc. as appropriate.
**evil grin** I guess we all have our own point of view. I respect the person I am with I have no interest in killing anyone or doing some permanent damage, I am well educated in the areas I play, if you give me a knife to slice into your flesh, I will not use it like digging for gold, I have had training I have educated myself and do not close my eyes and say " well darn it I will give it ago" I find there is way to many kinky people out there who are also under educated, it is the shame as breath control, choking can be very dangerous, if you grip in the wrong area of the persons throat it is lights out and game over!
I can give you many examples and there is one that sticks out in my mind, I was once at a party, a "master" was cropping the bottoms of his slaves feet, we are not talking lightly he was going like a bat out of hell, I gasped I was in total shock, first his aiming was very bad and two it was bluntly obvious he was under educated, How many of you out there know that with some force a crop/cane/paddle hard enough on the sole of the feet can actually kill you ? I confronted the person and enjoyed very much opening my vocabulary on him.
People this is all fun and games till someone loses an eye or in this case a life!
Respect is what it is all based on, a submissive respects you enough to let you do it, respect their life enough to be educated!
A heart warming and a much cherished memory I have is recently, I met a submissive with many of the same "taboos" I have, truthfully they made me float to 7th heaven just through the chat screen. We met late one night (was meant to be earlier but I got lost) We had a glass of rose and **blushes** I think it started with me offering a scratched back, as the day after I was cutting my nails, that is the dare we had, me going for him to see my nails before I cut them.
He offered me his back and I lifted his shirt, I run my nails over his back, wrapping my arms around his torso digging in my nails and ripping them to the outer edges of his body, I did not draw any blood and there was some intense moments. Running my nails lightly over his cheeks and throat I gripped his throat and added some pressure, how we were sitting it was not the correct position and if I added to much pressure I could have done some damage, This I did not want to do.
Why is this a cherished moment and memory ? One because I could not believe the connection we had, the fact I wanted to do so much more deeper, harder yet knowing what I thought was the limit seeing this was a first meeting which brings me to the next point of why I cherish it, this person:
1, Means a lot to me now in many ways.
2, They taught me a lesson. never say never, as I "use to" say I would never play on a first meeting
3, Leaving on a high keeps you wanting more this person has turned into a drug.

360 to go

In My books there is nothing more powerful, more sexy, more feminine then a lady in stilettos, Her posture standing tall and proud the power and energy she radiates, The confidence she has and portrays to people who sees her. Totally in control and aware of the environment she is in.

Things are moving slowly but that does not matter as long as I get to the goal I have set for myself, What goal you might ask? well let me tell you. My love for stilettos are so strong it is like a vampire needs blood **evil grin as I know someone right now is smiling wide** I need them to survive, they are my drug along side with many other things.
My Goal is, with every kilogram I lose I am going to buy a pair of stilettos, or someone buy them for me, Now in saying that, that is only the first step in this journey as my end goal is to have a different pair of stilettos for every day of the year !
So 365 stilettos all in a row, a different pair on everyday and ohh myyyy I am getting excited just thinking about it.
Anyways here is the newest member of the 365 club, no name for them yet, they have not even been outside, I love the heel (obviously) they are 12cm high which is within my requirements of a stiletto, nothing under 10cm is the rule!!! they will only be worn under some dress pants I do not think they are sexy enough to be fully seem only the toes and heel is to be observed.

My love -stilettos
My passion- stilettos
What footwear will I only own -stilettos
What can you get me for a gift - stilettos
Journey ends when ? NEVER
Minimum goal - 365 pairs of stilettos not under 10cm

**don't look at the mess in the background I am doing home improvements**

Well then !

**looks innocent**
what do you think ?

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A sad day

Today was a very sad day, It all started yesterday at the gym, no stilettos when working out, ok that I can live with as strange as it felt after over 3 weeks in only stilettos, but it gets worse!
I woke up this morning and I was feeling my work out from the day before, so much so that I debated on wearing stilettos, seeing I am refusing to wear anything under 10cm it was a sad day, I put on my boots they feel half the height but I know it is just a few centimeters but it really does feel shitty!
Today and tonight I am taking it easy so that tomorrow my stilettos are back in their rightful place, on my feet!!!!

Sadistic Spanks
Severity

Deeper Side

For some of you reading this you are lucky enough to know the real me, for some of you, I am just a dream you want to get hold of. There are about 2 or so people who know my real deep side and amazingly enough I am going to share some of them with you right now, maybe it amazes you, surprises you, shocks you, lets you down but you know what ? I do not care as it is me and I am like no one else you know!

I Severity/Tracey, Am human, a real person, I love things such as hugging, kissing, being held, I love to shower with someone,I like quiet nights in front of the TV and romantic dinners,A massage, I love to feel at peace and whole when I am with my lover/submissive (when I have one) I love to be the object of their attraction and attention as I love them to be mine.
I love fairytales, the happy ending, I need a peter pan a man but always a boy at heart who can make me laugh and smile.

I have rediscovered my FULL femininity, all my "bad day granny panties" panties are thrown out and sloppy around the house clothing as well, I have turned into who I was and will now always be, ME the Feminine Stiletto loving, sexy looking and always stunning Severity/Tracey
With this re-discovery I have also vowed to myself that my footwear will ONLY be of stilettos, no excuse end of story!
My passion for the ever so feminine and male luring stiletto is beyond anything anyone of you can imagine, there is one of you that is an acceptation to that statement, go on keep smiling and dream.

I am sadistic as hell and only a few know to what extent. These very select few also turn me on beyond anything I have ever experienced and yup sorry to the elect few who know who they are, there is one who is so much further/higher on the list then the rest of you and you know who you are!
My roots of being sadistic is just mind boggling I dare not say any of it here unless you entice me to do so.
I said to this "higher on the list" person once, you are rare, very rare, your "taboos" are not found often and it is something I keep hidden as I thought there was no one else like me who liked it.
Mmmmmm my mouth is watering.

I am a happy loving person, when I meet a person/submissive do not expect me to be carrying my whip and wearing my corset with fishnet stockings, do you really think we all dress like that ? read above, I am Dominant, I am Female, I ooze Femininity and that alone will make you weak at the knees and want to worship me, you will want to become my object, the cloths do not make the Dominant but the stilettos sure print a pretty picture,

What a Mood

I need my mood to be over.
For weeks now I have been in a mood, you see a few weeks ago I had a taste of something, something I want more of, now the problem is, the taste I got has been taken away from me.
**growls** How dare something I desire be taken away, yet that is respect huh ?

Sadistic Spanks

Severely Bitchy

**An email sent to me and my answer also posted on OW**

Severity, are you always such a bitch and disrespectful ?
Big Boy

Dear B.B.,
Who says that I am a bitch and disrespectful?!? Ohhh, you. Hmm, now lets put it this way “little boy”. From your point of view I am disrespectful, I am a bitch, but by someone else’s point of view I am a Goddess. They desire to worship and to give themselves to me. As you may see someone as very attractive, the next person may see the same person as butt arse ugly. It is all in the eye of the beholder.

Sadistic Spanks,
Severity

Everyone say

Now everyone give a big thank you to Dutchbitch for coming along and making my Realm a little more pretty.
As a thank you she likes flowers, and like me shoes!!!
I have actually attempted to walk through Den Haag with her and not go into a shoe shop.
Needless to say we did not manage it, we seen many shops but we were good bitches, we did not buy anything, only because there was none of you to pay for it or carry it!!!

Sadistic Spanks

How to get it perfect.

Today's lesson is about perfection!!! Considering I am the Goddess, I deserve perfect. So lets start today's lesson on making me perfect!!


You need one of these, pretty in pink.













Then seeing I have so many of them laying and hanging around, get yourself a submissive! the male kind is the best for this task ahead.














The last step of this lesson is the perfectly smooth pussy, ready to be worshiped.









Oh yes, also the stockings and stilettos but that is the next lesson on worshipping me in all my beauty and glory

New lyrics of "I will Survive"

At first I was afraid, I was petrified. When you said you had 10 inches, Lord I almost died! But I'd spent so many years just waiting for a man that long, That I grew strong, And I knew that I could take you on... But there you are, another lie, I was ready for a Big Mac and you've brought me a French Fry! I should have known that it was bullshit, just a sad pathetic dream, Should have known there was no Anaconda lurking in those jeans! Go on now - go, walk out the door, Don't you promise me 10 inches, then turn up with only 4! Weren't you a brat to think I wouldn't find you out!? Don't you know we're only joking when we say size don't count??!! (Chorus] I will survive! I will survive! Cuz as long as I have batteries, My sex life's gonna thrive! I will always have good sex, with a handful of latex! I will survive! I will survive! ..Hey! Hey! It took all my self control not to laugh out loud, When I saw your little wiener standing tall and proud! But to hell with your ego and to hell with all your needs, Now I'm saving all my lovin' for a cordless multi speed! (Chorus] I will survive! I will survive! Cuz as long as I have batteries, My sex life's gonna thrive! I will always have good sex, With a handful of latex! I will survive! I will survive! .Hey! Hey!

Seeing the outside world

It was an adventure last night, My new Stiletto's ventured outside accompanied with black stockings with lace trims, A lovely low cut top, a sexy body and a beautiful face.
Where did this adventure end up ? In Zwolle in a hotel bar along with a female friend of mine and a handsome young submissive male.

Destination - A Hotel Cafe in Zwolle
Activities - Drinking, laughing, talking and a lot of eyes our way.
End of story- The Stiletto's have still not been worshiped.

Till next time my pretties
xxoo

For those of you

For those of you who do not know my real name, well now you do!
I was sent this last night and I find it really cute, thank you to the person who sent it to me **kiss** or do I just say...

Sadistic Spanks

Severity

The Love affair continues.

My love affair with footwear seems to be getting worse, I can not walk past a shoe shop without trying at least 1 pair of shoes on, when having the shoes on I daydream of the damage they can do to the male flesh, the worshipping they will receive, here are some new shoes I got on Friday.

To Many

Well since none of you even thought about me on my birthday, your lucky I got a nice gift, No thanks to any of you.
My best friend from the USA come over for my birthday and wow have we been shopping.
We have been to Koln, Amsterdam, Maastricht and any other town we see with shops.
She has a handbag fetish and me, well you all know I love my footwear.
I was out tonight trying on many many shoes, I want a nice new pair of stiletto's but there was way to many to choose from and also most mad my feet look so fat !
Hello fashion world we are not all little china dolls !!!!
So who is offering to come shoe shopping with me next time ? you will be able to slip the shoes on and off my feet and you never know what else I allow Mmmmm

YOU USELESS FUCKING MALES!

Your are all so fucking useless, really, nothing for my birthday...
it shows me how much I mean to you, so you can all fuck off!!

Tomorrow

So tomorrow is my birthday. Who needs my address to send me flowers ?? hmmm ???

Vacation time

How lovely it was to wake up and know in just a few short minutes I would have a very pleasing submissive at my door.
He calls " Ma'am I have entered the city."
"Good boy, now when you arrive at my house first put the garbage out and then I shall greet you" I replied.
He is ever so pleasing he knows me well, just the look in my eye, the grin on my face, he knows what to do.
I greeted him in my favourite black corset, along with some dress pants and obviously boot, Mmmm I love all my boots.

He does get himself in trouble with me, calling me a tease **raises eyebrow** Am I meant to be sorry for this ? that I love to tease and fuck with the mind of a submissive ? I do not think so, face it, you all love me fucking with your head, it is better then my hand to your arse. He also has this habit of always wanting to touch my body with his lips **evil grin** he must just love being in trouble, he can not handle being tickled, it gets to the stage it pisses him of, to the stage he gets annoyed and angry, the best thing about a submissive who is in a dominant position at their place of work ? getting them out of the dominant state of mind and staying out of it when in my presence **chuckles**
After 3 hours I was very pleased, his little sexy arse red as anything, his legs carrying my mark, MMm his nipple so sensitive to now even touch.

It will be 2 weeks till I see him again he now away on vacation, I am unsure how his drive was in the car, more then 6 hours sitting in the car with the seat belt crossing his chest which would push his shirt onto his nipples and an arse that was so red and had shades of black and blue, I just wonder how long he could sit.

An Update

Well it has been a little while since I have posted.
Many things have been on my mind, a lot of vanilla life included.
I have also been busy with a certain "thing" an "object" if you like.
A butterfly catcher who does not need a net,
A road rager who learns control,
A stress ball worth squeezing,
An innocent worth protecting yet corrupting,
A boot polisher with the willingness,
A hard worker who has the mindset,
A good listener with lowered eyes,
A great learner who responds,
A lost puppy dog with them sad eyes,
A tennis coach with balls worth hitting,
A little one who has a big heart,
A lover with no barriers,
A person who knows to feel,
A pet I love to care for,
A human with emotions.

This list can go on forever maybe it is best just to say and explain in 3 words
My soul mate.

A bad day good.

Today I was not looking forward to, I had to go to the dentist and get the root canal finished, Ohhh I just wanted to beat the shit out of the dentist for this !!
When I got home after the dentist I was e-mailing back and forth with a submissive friend of mine, a lovely little one he is, handsome, older, smart, funny, makes me smile a lot and ever so submissive around me.
We were going to meet up for some business (real business so stop thinking dirty)
After a few e-mails he informed me he had finished his work and if it was ok to come over early, which was no problem other then the fact I looked like shit because of the dentist.
So he arrived an hour later, a big hug was the greeting, he looked ever so handsome in his pinstriped suit and as funny as it was, I was wearing my pinstriped suit also, so I went and changed my top.
We sat and talked and drank a coffee, well he did I tried but spilt it all down my top !!! He loves looking in my eyes, he is always just staring at me, in my eyes. I smiled and laughed then I could not handle it any longer.

"Take your jacket off" I said, he did.
Then he sat again and I asked him a few more questions.
"Take your shirt off" he did and again sat.
Again he kept looking at me and being me I had my little evil grin on my face the whole time.
"Take your t-shirt off and when you sit turn you back to me" he did and it seemed he was shocked.
Ohh the thoughts running through my head. I put my long nails on his back, Mmmm I scratched him all the way down his back. Ohh it looked so lovely I had to do it again, I did it over and over from his back to the front and front to back.
So a long story short, he ended up with red scratches over his back and front, sore nipples his testicles plucked with some tweezers along with bleeding testicles, damned nails huh? Maybe I should cut them because it seems pinching his testicles cuts **evil grin**
I must say, there is nothing sexier then a male in a pinstriped suit kneeling before me, looking up at me as I stand in front of him begging to kiss my boots, those cute puppy dog eyes and then to see him lean forward to kiss them when I allow, I think dress regulations from now on will be a suit!!

I did not know

I was wondering why you all e-mailed me to tell me your comments about my blog.
Yesterday I was told but a submissive that you had to join up before you could leave a message.
At least 1 little subbie did, good boy marc, well you all you others who " can't be bothered" doing a little work lazy fuckers, I changed the settings so I expect comments from now on..
Oh I didn't do it because I feel nice or anything, I done it because I know how much of a pain in the arse it is to join up to a webpage for nothing, been doing it forever and a day lol

Hope your all thinking of gifts for my birthday.
How about flowers!!! ?? I want my house full of freshly cut flowers!

Sadistic Spanks

Severity

About Time!

I have been looking all over the country for some new boots that I can wear everyday!
The ones I wear now are hurting my feet because they are getting so old! and when I say I wear them everyday, I pretty much mean everyday!
So while visiting a neighbouring country I went to a shoe shop, Wow did they have many many boots, So many I did not know what to buy, and very well priced also.
It took me close to an hour to narrow it down to 3 pairs, then I could not pick so I closed my eyes and pointed.
Here is the result, My new everyday boots, they have not been cleaned yet, who wants to honour of being the first submissive to clean them ?

Not long now!!

It is not long now, I hope you all have not forgotten, it is my Birthday on September 13, and I have a really really long wish list.

A maid to clean my house, wait so much of a mess I might need 2
A slave to paint my attic
A slave to finish the renovations,
A slave to clean my boots
A slave to humiliate.
A "dog" to walk.

ohh the list in endless, I WANT many things but I also need these things to survive, I am like a vampire, if I don't get my blood offered to me, I will come hunting for you !!!

Many things.

I have many things to tell right now, let the truth be known I don't care for it at this moment to write so much.
So hang in there I will cover all subjects soon enough, just let me leave you with this thought
I HATE LIARS!!!!

Now I said that, I also have to say something totally different, I love the coffee you can buy on the A27 ;-)

Sadistic Spanks

Severity

When Bordom sets in

Well I don't know if it was a mixture of bordom or pissed off mood but well I had fun and it made me smile, it happened more then a week ago but I have been very lazy and not posting..Below is an email I recieved by a very useless dog..

Dear Mistress Severity,

This unworthy dog greets You on its knees, balls and cock squeezed between the legs, presenting its leash to You.

Thanks for your attention You gave this dog last night. It was a good lesson to sit on my knees while chatting with You on line, more so because you ordered me to put uncooked rice on the laminated floor and kneel on that. I did not realize it could hurt that much if a ninety kg dog’s useless body rests on rice grains. The pain was felt deeply, but it also aroused a sensation that made its cock glow. Although the slavedog asked for merci and requested to be permitted to stand up the Mistress did not allow it soon.

The picture I took from the hurtled knees did not impress the Mistress at all and the dog was ordered to kneel on the rice again. This was very humiliating since the dog thought it was already punished enough.

The pain grew and the dog almost wetted itself, the dog could not sit still anymore and tried to ease the pain by moving a bit up and down, from left to right. This moving did not help, it even worsened the situation for this dog. Surprisingly the dog began to feel more horny and its cock started even to glow and grow while the pain was still there and also the urge to pee made it more difficult to obey and resist the will to stand.

The relief and the gratitude was great when the Mistress eventually allowed the dog to get up and take another picture of its legs. This time the Mistress looked more satisfied since she could see the red knees, and the rice grains that were stuck in the flesh of kneecaps and shin-bone.

The slavedog thought of masturbating now, but he did not dare asking for Her permission knowing She would find a way to prevent it and make him suffer more.

The reward came when the Mistress allowed the dog to lick Her ankles. For the dog it meant it suffered not in vain, but to obtain this pleasure.

Thanks Mistress.

Dog greets You humbly.

The Walk

As I said in one of my last posts, these boots walked all over someone!
I was in a mood, a certain submissive seemed to have got in my way when I was in a bitch mood, so I walked all over him!!
He drove to me late at night, I took him to the forest as it had been raining and I made him lick clean my boots after a small walk in the forest, end result, Me happy him covered in mud all over his cloths and face. I ill leave it to your own imagination how I got the mud onthe inside of his cap, and no I didnt use my hands.

Sadistic Spanks

Severity

Ohh YES

I have also a new e-mail seeing none of you arseholes msn me anymore or email me on my msn... I have a new addy..
ms_severity@hotmail.com add me to your msn or fuck off forever as I am not interested in time wasters be my slave or NOTHING!!!!!

These boots

These boots are made for walking, and that's just what they'll do
one of these days these boots are gonna walk all over you.

And they did, see in the next blog over what/who.

Sadistic Spanks
Severity

Online jerk off

Do you know how many of you reading this are totally fucking useless ?
Just in case you have to think about it let me give you a hint, it is above 99% and just below 100%

In the last few days/weeks the amount of wankers that pass me by is just amazing.
lets make a list of the good and bad.

Good, I wanted to go to a theme park, a submissive took me and someone else paying for the whole day.
Good, I needed to go somewhere and could not be arsed gassing my car, stop by a submissive he drove me to my desired location and tanked my car.
Good, I desired a corset and some bustiers, submissives ordered them and I received them.
Now onto the jerk offs.
Bad, I turn my messager on and messages pop up, please Mistress i am a useless dog please punish me.
Bad, Tell useless pathetic submissive begging to be cyber spanked to send tribute, jerk off disappears every time and blames Internet connection.

See I do not ask for a lot, I have never set any dollar value or actually ordered anyone to send me anything at all, people have offered to do it, Now with these regular jerk offs I HAVE got totally sick of them wasting my time when I want to quietly chat and all I get is " oh iam bad cyber spank me, oh oh I am a useless slave abuse me blah blah blah, fuck right off, I am sick of you and when I ask to prove yourself you disappear, and Goddess of Kink, forbid if I ask you to tribute, I even asked a submissive to donate $1 to a charity and they refused, well little boys know this, if you ever want to serve me or be at my feet it will cost you more then money!!! think about it jerk offs.

What a Whore !!

Well there is so much about me you all do not know so I shall let you in on a little secret.
I comment A LOT on one of my friends blogs The Original Whore (T.O.W) and well it needed a little spice so I have also started helping out with answering some e-mails they get, so have a question ? need some answers ? drop by and send me an email Ms.Severity@gmail.com

Sadistic Spanks

Severity

he listened

I can't believe it he listened!
A certain person who usually does not know how to fucking listened totally surprised me today when I told then what to do and he did it! Something so simple yes affective, damn I still can't beleive me listened.
This person is "meant to be" submissive but it just vanilla with a huge kink.
Well pretty boy news flash for you, I am taking over slowly and you do not even see it!!
Sit down and buckle up your in for a ride and you will not even know your on a journey

Sadistic Spanks

Severity

It is the season to...

SWEAT.
I really dislike to sweat the only good thing about sweat is when I make you sweat!
I have recently decided to TRY to get back into shape, it does not usually work the way I want it to because I am not to good at "taking orders" from the personal trainers.
So I have thought about it and I have decided to be so very loving and thoughtful, I am going to work out and sweat my arse off (literally) and you all can get a reward,yes strange but true.
This is not a chance that comes along everyday so jump at the offer while it stands (because who knows how long I will last at the gym)
The Offer.
While I go to the gym I shall be wearing some of my loved g-strings and socks, these items will be up for sale, the price is to be set by you, how much are they worth to you? My sweat scent.

Really !!

It is really starting to piss me off the liars out there.
Why the hell can't people be straight ?
Lie about being online, lie about chatting with a million different Mistress's and "serving" them all.
Lie about having the fucking day free off work.
Get a grip this "lifestyle" is based on trust, respect and honesty.
Consider yourself washed from the board if I see you doing any of the above!

Sadistic Spanks

Severity

The, It, He, She, They

I just do not know what to think, Help me out here people what should I think ?
I have been around long enough to know what I like and who I am.
I have no right to call people fakes, wannabes or trolls, I just put it down to " they go about things differently then me.
It just amazes me some of the names people come up with to "advertise" and express themselves in fewer words as possible.
Ok here I am "Severity" I have touched this subject before and I will give you a quick rundown of it again. Severity or Severe is not always a negative, end of story fill in the rest.
I have come across names that make me think which is good and then names I think " Oh I need to message them and get into their heads and see where they are coming from, why on Gods green earth do they think that for example I have seen names like " perfect" or " perfection" Ok I can see how they would be perfect for someone but hmmm when they state they are perfection I raise an eyebrow.
"no limit" people with this in their name I always have to message them.
Are you sure you have no limits ? really really sure? I think I can ramble off a few things and you might change your mind.
I seen one the other day that made me laugh "sub 4 sex adventure" why it made me laugh I am not quiet sure but it did.
So lets sum this up, The name you make is a representation of who you are, no matter what people will question it and not understand why you choose that name, even as blunt as your name may be.
I am not judging I am just wondering what people think when they make their screen names.

Sadistic Spanks

Severity

Worship them NOW

I had my lovely day at the theme park yesterday, with lovely company Mmmm it was so good !
I spent 12 hours walking around the theme park, going on ride, enjoying the company.
Now my feet are killing me, they have rested all night and they are still throbbing so NOW is the time I need my foot slave here.
I love my feet being worshipped, kisses sucked and forced into a slave mouth as they lay on the ground beneath my hell while your at it I need them painted.

Who wants a date ?

As most of you know I am totally crazy about a theme park here called "The Efteling"
So here is my offer, I have 2 tickets to the breakfast at the Efteling for the morning of 7.7.7
There were plans to go with someone else but they have highly pissed me off, so I am asking here, who wants to go with me to the Efteling Saturday morning ?
It is a very early morning 7am to be there.

There are a few catches,
1, You will be going with me.
2, It cost 70euro.
3, You need to pay the park entry for yourself (I have a season pass)
4, Maybe a hotel room (if you can deal with spending a night with me lol)

So if these are good or bad "catches" That is for you to say, you know me email to contact me or my number.

Sadistic Spanks

Severity

Oh you just wanna be!!

I am very amused at this moment, yes Highly amused.
Let me tell you how it all happened.
I was checking my hotmail and I notice I had a mail on a certain website where you can meet very, scary, interesting, out there and normal people involved in the "lifestyle" in some way shape or form.
It is not new for me to get a mail just bluntly saying " I am naked on my knees, kneeling before you with my balls crushed between my legs" usual thought is " not crushing them hard enough as you seem to have the ability to type me a stupid mail.
Anyways back to why I am amused.
I like original people, I think I deserve to be special, treated with originality, I very much dislike spam mail, also in the regard to a submissive sending the same email out to 100 different dominants **looks at a certain redhead who may be reading this**
So I got a mail..

Dear Severity

Hello. I have just seen your profile and as I am a single submissive male looking for a woman like you naturally I should respond. You are very beautiful and I like your honest realistic profile. It makes a refreshing change from the usual nonsense spoken on here. .......

Blah blah blah, going on to say things about his age, his past, you know telling me everything but the fact he is married (he had a picture in the mail he tried to photo shop out the ring lol) and to read his intro and get back to him if I am interested **roll of eyes**

so my reply was along the lines of,

I will read your introduction when you do not send me the same email you send everyone !!!!
it is obvious you send this to everyone due to the following facts.
"You are very beautiful and I like your honest realistic profile" .. My looks you do not know as you have never seen my picture and my inner person you also do not know so how can I be beautiful.
Honest realistic profile ? it is a riddle you fool!!
As for the rest, that's for the next email to tell you how stupid and idiotic you have been

Severity
The very loving. sexy and REALISTIC person who sends original emails.

So there, I am amused, as he replied further with how much of a fake I was because I did not accept him, goodness me what are we to do with ones self ?

Just to bore you some more here is my profile on that certain website .

Severity

maybe there is nothing to say ?
maybe you can read between the lines ?
maybe my name says it all ?

I am not new to this I knew very early on who and what I was !
so stop with the foolish messages to me .

It has Arrived

My new corset got here today !
I am very happy with it, it matches my new flogger just perfect!
Now if your all good little boys and beg hard enough I will take pictures of me with it on.
Any submissive interested in a photo session?

Sadistic spanks

Severity

(p.s. this is the picture from the website of the corset)

Half Way

Well it is Wednesday, half way to the weekend!
Fridays are a pleasing day for me, slave x will be here again Friday and I have a long long list of things for him to do, if he is a good boy and gets enough done he might even be able to worship me, maybe something more then my feet. Like I said it all depends now doesn't it ? As I am the boss.

There is an English submissive who is very interested in meeting me.
There is never any shortage of submissives wanting to meet me but there is a shortage of the submissives I like that want to meet me.
Since I kicked the last "less than" submissive male to the curb it is now no holes barred **evil grin**
My house is getting in order, My feet are getting worshipped, The corset I want is in the Fed Ex van as we speak and my sanity, hmm well lets not go there, what is sane ?

Well Chin up all I have other days free for meetings all you have to do is email me!
Ms.Severity@gmail.com

Sadistic Spanks

Severity

Random thought

I was just making some breakfast and as I was putting some honey on it I wondered why.
Why do I buy the honey 4 times the price than other honey just because it has a huge chunk of honeycomb in it ? When the honey is finished I just throw out the honeycomb anyways.

Writen by slave 'x'

so lets see what this slave "x" had to say about it.

finally, the day has come. For some time now, close to two years, I have been talking with Mrs Severity and many times She mentioned being busy with a project or cleaning up. Every time I have offered my help but She can handle it very well on Her own, and usually declined my offer. But now she accepted my offer. We've met before, just going out and have some drinks.. twice. It's strange, in the past two years that we've been talking we are clearly drawn toward each other, although it's not clear why or what to make of it.. it just clicks.

So the day arrived.. and I had to go by train. Arriving there, she was waiting for me and we went on to downtown. Debating whether we would go first for some drinks or do groceries, we did the latter. When we left the grocery-store I had to push the cart back to the car, which was (of course) parked all the way in the back. Arriving at Her place we unpacked the things and placed it all we're it belonged. Then She showed me all the projects that needed to be done.

Project time :) actually, it went all very smooth. Which kinda surprised me. First of all, Mrs. Severity is a very kind ad friendly but also helpful person.. but secondly, usually I have a tendency to become more Dominant, in a way of "oh, let me take care of that". But that didn't happen. I was actually following orders. I guess She has a bigger impact on me then I want to admit. But the fact is, that She is one of the very few with whom I feel comfortable being the slave that i really am.

Prior to all that, we had agreed on chat and coffee, do some projects and nothing else was planned. However, in between projects She did allow me to worship Her feet.. something i really did enjoy a lot. I enjoyed it mainly because it was heartfelt. Come to think of it, I've been waiting two years for this moment. To be helpful and to worship her.. and it certainly was worth the wait. Hopefully it will be a wee bit sooner for next time.. lol

slave 'x'

No Energy

You know how it is some day's when you get out of bed and just potter around the house?
Well that is me today.
I have a dentist appointment today, yet I could not b bothered getting dressed and going, I do not know if he would have a problem me turning up in my bunny slippers and big fluffy housecoat.
As for get groceries ? well does anyone want to do it for me?
I am out of fresh fruit and vegetables and I LOVE my fresh produce!

Unaware Torture

It has to be so natural for me I do not even know when I am torturing people!
I was online with my best friend talking and shooting the breeze and I needed some music so instead of getting dressed and walking outside to get a CD from the car I clicked onto youtube.
I am a huge Matchbox20 fan and their lead singer has gone solo and I have actually never heard any of his music, so I went surfing for some of his stuff.
This is leading to Unaware Torture I promise.
So I listened to some of Rob Thomas's songs and then went to matchbox20, I come across some people doing a "cover" of the song, Oh My Goodness!!!
My ears started to bleed, then it hit me like a sledge hammer, holy shit I always have the window down and singing to matchbox20 when in a traffic jam.
How many people have beem tortured in the daily traffic jams I am stuck in?
Maybe it is not my pretty face and tits popping out of my top they are looking at,
Maybe they are looking at me, picturing my face on a dartboard.

To All the people who have heard me sing in the traffic jams I am sorry, only sorry to the extent that I was singing and enjoying the traffic jams and if your sorry arse didnt like it take the fucking train!

Vanilla with a twist.

This morning I woke up late and had nothing to wear to work, strolling around the house butt arse (ass) naked I decided to put on my suit.
All ready face done, hair perfect, suit outstanding, I could not find my "casual" everyday boots, (note: I fucking love boots wear them day in day out) I was getting rather pissed off that I had misplaced my boots.
Running out of time I put on some different boots, these boots I love and have many fond memories.
I walked to work and it had me thinking, how many of the men who double took me were looking at me or looking at my boots, when arriving at work my question was answered.

We had a bus load of business men from Hong Kong today and I had to help translate and out of the 35 visitors I counted 30 of them asking about my boots!
They are staying in this country for a few days and I was invited to dinner by most of them and some were so blunt to ask if I am interesting in BDSM, I grinned and let out a little chuck with a comment " little one do you know how many testicles have been crushed under these boots"
This person bowed and asked to be dismissed, I laughed again and I let him leave, he went off to talk to a group of fellow businessmen and I just had to smile and laugh the rest of the day, I seemed to have spell bound most of them, they hung around me like a bad smell.

I am now sitting behind the computer while they are having lunch and I am wondering how far I can push this, I have had questions from co-workers asking why they are fascinated with me, hell someone 2 times taller then you, what do you think is fascinating, and these boots, anyone with a submissive bone in their body would drool!
So how far should I push this today ? I will just be myself I think and let them drool for a while, apparently they will be back at work tomorrow also but I have the day free, Maybe I tell them if they want me to be there they have to hire me in as a private translator ;-)

Sadistic spanks
Severity

Does size matter?

So your thinking I am about to write about cock sizes ? well your wrong, I am about to talk about the body shape and size of a Mistress! maybe I compare things to the penis but that is not the subject at hand.

NEWS FLASH!!!
I am a BBW, I am big, I am beautiful, end of story.

Ok maybe there is more to this story.
When I meet someone online in my area one of the first things most of them ask is for a picture or how big you are.
Now my question is, does it matter the size of a person ?
If you are a submissive and believe in Female Supremacy size should not matter, or are you a person who sees that female supremacy is only for females that are thin ?
My point of view is that your a nitwit.

Let me tell you a little story about something that has happened to me before.
I was getting to know a submissive online and when I told him I was BBW (plus size) he ran away, that's fine no problem as I have no time for shallow people. A few weeks later he actually sent me a message on the SAME message board where we had met, forgetting he had actually contacted me before.
I had my chance to get into his head, I did, I said nothing about my size but sent a face picture, he fell over (so he said) saying how pretty I was and now he could fall to his knees before me easily, so I told him I was BBW (again) he refused to believe it so we met for coffee, after a nice coffee and and a lot of talk later I told him what he thought of BBW's he admitted he was always judging and wanted the thin type of lady and that he thought all BBW's are stinky and do not care for themselves, then I told him he had contacted me before and ran away when I said I was BBW, think it is a male thing he seems to not remember that, he begged to see me again and said he liked me a lot, my personality, my outlook on things, my power (yawn yawn you know how it goes)
I told him never to contact me again.
seems he was also deaf as he contacted me, emailed, called text messaged to see me again, my answer NO.

Now I do not know why I have even started rambling on about this bullshit, I guess I am just sick of people pushing others under certain titles and umbrellas, We are all different, thick, thin, black, white, long hair, short hair, we are who we are and it is a matter of accepting us for being us or just fuck off.
I am larger yes, not due to over eating as are many BBW, there are medical reasons in most cases, in my case it is due to an accident. Do not believe everything you see in the media, in the case of BDSM, D/s you see all the BDSM sites with thin Mistress's in tight leather skirts well they are nothing to see in a corset without tits, but they are also all Pro Dommes, guess you pay for their service and also their plastic surgery, I am Big, I am Beautiful and the chances are I am your dream come true!!!!

Like the size of a penis, not the size that matters but how you use it.
(I had to make a reference)

Sadistic spanks

Severity

And the answer is !!!!!

As mentioned in the last posting of getting a slave and blindfolding them to take them into my house and let them get on with the house work and home improvements, I put things into gear !

So yesterday (Friday) I had a visitor.
Now lets go back 2 years and see where this all started.
I met a nice person online, great to talk to and was always there when I needed an ear to talk to and a shoulder to lean on (so to say)
Even though over the last two years we have only met twice there is this strange bond, a good strange bond, a click some would say, it is hard to explain.

So the afternoon arrived and so did my visitor, lets call him "x" no plans made, just a chat and coffee. I needed to do groceries so we went out and done that, which helped a lot seeing I have an injured wrist and unable to lift anything heavy.
It was a nice day, a lot got done in the house, he actually could take orders, how amazing is that ? After all these idiots I have met, I have given a chance to it was amazing to have one who is what they say they are.
So needless to say there is another appointment made, a list made and also nail polish chosen for my toenails.

Sadistic spanks
Severity

Punishment ?

Oh silly silly silly boy!
Oh it gets to me the "submissive" that tries to top from the bottom, This I will not tolerate.
you are a submissive, I am the Dominant, do not mix that up.
So many sub missive's do things wrong just to get punishment.
The words ring in my ears from the other night
" Oh Mistress, I am sorry I know I did not follow your orders, please spank me for punishment."
EXCUSE ME???
Are you telling me what to do?
punishment is not meant to be pleasant and believe me it will not be.
You want to piss me off and displease me on purpose by not carrying out an order just to get punishment, I will let you in on a secret, I will ignore your useless arse, No spanking, no bondage nothing you ask for but IGNORED!

Sadistic spanks

Severity

When reality bites back.

What do you want for your birthday ?
Well yesterday was my "boyfriends" birthday, he turned 30.

Things have not been the best the last weeks, I have been catching him playing with peoples emotions and feelings online misleading them and playing games with their heart which I am totally against.
Before the midday things took a turn that had me in contact with another Mistress, A few things were said and done, one thing lead to another and it come out he lied to her about many many things, everything from his job, education, living situation and the obvious me!

Many thoughts running through my head, wondering if he lied about this what else has been going on?
I went to hid party that I was invited to, informed him he would really not like my gift I had.
When I turned up I had his laptop in 1 hand and the rest of his things in my car. I stayed no longer then 3 minutes at his mothers house (he still lives at home) I declined politely a coffee and some cake as I had no plans to stay longer then 5 minutes.

I got my house key back and asked him to get the rest of the things out of my car. While he has his hands full I told him I had one more thing for him.
I slapped him across the face.

So what do you want for your birthday?
I will tell you what he got, his things given back to him and a good slap across the face.
I do not think the slap hurt as much as me finding out the last 2 years have been a lie, think his pride was hurt more considering his mother and neighbours seen me slapping him.

Lies come back to you and as boring sometimes you think your life is there is no need to lie, the truth lasts longer, if you are unhappy with your life to the extent that you have to lie about it , do something about it, instead of investing so much time in making up the lie and trying to keep up with it, put the time, energy and effort improving the things you dislike about yourself because reality bites back.

Oh and by the way,
Happy 30th Birthday Hugo

To buy or not to buy

what to do ? what to do ?
My best friend sent me a link last night, I was talking to her about wanting a new corset.
http://www.hipsandcurves.com/

Wow did my wish list just grow!
Corsets
Bra's
Leather
G-strings

Oh didn't I tell you all it is my birthday? everyday of the year!
Or just feel free to fill my house with flowers.

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win win situation.

Recently I have been making some home improvements so I have not had a lot of time for anything, this has now taken its toll on me. I miss going out with friends, relaxing, having fun, spanking asses.
I have now decided that the war zone I call my home needs finishing and it need to be finish yesterday!
I am even "scared" to let a submissive come into this chaos, on a "normal" day everything has it's place and is in order.

Being the smart dominant I am, I have come up with a solution to my problem.
There are many submissives online who are wanting to serve me (so they say)Sadly most are full of shit when it comes to actually meeting, they back out of the meeting with a piss poor excuse or just don't turn up.
Others turn up with a list of expectations.
first wrong move for a submissive, having expectations.

Anyways back to my solution to the war zone.
Next meeting I arrange it will be in a less threatening place then a cafe. Goodness only knows why they think a cafe is threatening, maybe because I expect them to pay.
So lets say meet at the lovely castle close to my house, we can walk, talk and see the castle gardens then I tell the submissive I have something for them to do for me.
I will blindfold them and take them back to my house. Walk the submissive up the stairs and into my spare room, when taking the blindfold off they see before them a room that needs the wooden floors need to be put down.
I order the submissive to strip down and then start laying the floor. After the task is finished they can crawl to me, kiss my feet and thank me for letting them be a part of making my life easier. I place the blindfold back on the submissive, I take them to the attic and then I will have a lovely reward waiting. **evil grin**
After all is said and done I once again blindfold the submissive and take him back to the castle.

Is this not a win win situation ?
these are the points I see as win win

1. The submissive does not see my messy house.
2. I get things slowly finished in the house
3. The submissive feels honoured that he has helped me/made my life easier
4. The submissive gets a reward/session for pleasing me

The happy ending is, he wants to meet me at the castle again and the next time I get some painting or dusting done.
In the end I can stop using the blindfold in the house as it will not look like a war zone.
Then again I just love blindfolds.


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Seeking Severity

When meeting people in the "lifestyle" the one question I am always asked (by a submissive) is what do I look for in a sub/slave? The answer is quiet simple, honesty and respect, isn't that what we all look for in a partner?
In the BDSM, D/s world people try to push us all under the one umbrella and that just does not work. I myself am more D/s then BDSM, to me, my point of view is that D/s (Dominance, Submission) is more the relationship/lifestyle as BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism) is more the activity/play that spices up life.

I am no weekend BDSM'er, After giving a male a good spanking and session there is no way when that bedroom door is open that he will turn to me and say " right now put the garbage out" I am the Dominant in the relationship at all times and the male knows who he is and where his place is. No I am not on a power trip as many say and think, this is my nature it is who I have always been and will always be.

My desires (many call them kinks) vary far and wide and are not the desires of others.
Some love bondage and spankings, others foot worship or ass worship. Me I am simple, I like the above and more ;-)
you may need one huge umbrella to try to fit me under.

So when seeking a submissive, a partner I look for honesty, respect, to be treated like a lady as that is what I am, and your role? be a gentleman in public and my whipping pole, boot licking, ass worshiping, frenchmaid, slut boy in the bedroom.

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My Intro on Original Whore

My Intro on Original Whore

An Introduction to Severity

Warm Greetings to you all,

Maybe there is nothing to say?

Maybe you can read between the lines?

Maybe my name says it all?

Allow me to introduce myself.

I am Severity.

I am a 32 year old Dominant Female.

Domination is a lifestyle. It is who I am, my nature and my personality. I am very open minded and accept people for who they are.

Day to day you would not see me as a dominant female. I look, walk and talk like everyone else you see on the street. Saying that One is a "Mistress", a dominant female, it does not mean I sit around all day being a bitch, barking orders to everyone in ears shot. (that's Original Whore's job). I am loving and respectful but as my name says I am SEVERE.

Do you dare to find out more about me?

I look forward to being a part of this blog and putting in my two cents worth as well as answering all of your questions regarding the Dom/sub and BDSM lifestyle...if you dare to ask.

Sexy and Sadistic respects

Severity