what to do ? what to do ?
My best friend sent me a link last night, I was talking to her about wanting a new corset.
http://www.hipsandcurves.com/
Wow did my wish list just grow!
Corsets
Bra's
Leather
G-strings
Oh didn't I tell you all it is my birthday? everyday of the year!
Or just feel free to fill my house with flowers.
Sadistic spanks
Severity
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Tuesday, May 29, 2007
win win situation.
Recently I have been making some home improvements so I have not had a lot of time for anything, this has now taken its toll on me. I miss going out with friends, relaxing, having fun, spanking asses.
I have now decided that the war zone I call my home needs finishing and it need to be finish yesterday!
I am even "scared" to let a submissive come into this chaos, on a "normal" day everything has it's place and is in order.
Being the smart dominant I am, I have come up with a solution to my problem.
There are many submissives online who are wanting to serve me (so they say)Sadly most are full of shit when it comes to actually meeting, they back out of the meeting with a piss poor excuse or just don't turn up.
Others turn up with a list of expectations.
first wrong move for a submissive, having expectations.
Anyways back to my solution to the war zone.
Next meeting I arrange it will be in a less threatening place then a cafe. Goodness only knows why they think a cafe is threatening, maybe because I expect them to pay.
So lets say meet at the lovely castle close to my house, we can walk, talk and see the castle gardens then I tell the submissive I have something for them to do for me.
I will blindfold them and take them back to my house. Walk the submissive up the stairs and into my spare room, when taking the blindfold off they see before them a room that needs the wooden floors need to be put down.
I order the submissive to strip down and then start laying the floor. After the task is finished they can crawl to me, kiss my feet and thank me for letting them be a part of making my life easier. I place the blindfold back on the submissive, I take them to the attic and then I will have a lovely reward waiting. **evil grin**
After all is said and done I once again blindfold the submissive and take him back to the castle.
Is this not a win win situation ?
these are the points I see as win win
1. The submissive does not see my messy house.
2. I get things slowly finished in the house
3. The submissive feels honoured that he has helped me/made my life easier
4. The submissive gets a reward/session for pleasing me
The happy ending is, he wants to meet me at the castle again and the next time I get some painting or dusting done.
In the end I can stop using the blindfold in the house as it will not look like a war zone.
Then again I just love blindfolds.
Sadistic spanks
Severity
I have now decided that the war zone I call my home needs finishing and it need to be finish yesterday!
I am even "scared" to let a submissive come into this chaos, on a "normal" day everything has it's place and is in order.
Being the smart dominant I am, I have come up with a solution to my problem.
There are many submissives online who are wanting to serve me (so they say)Sadly most are full of shit when it comes to actually meeting, they back out of the meeting with a piss poor excuse or just don't turn up.
Others turn up with a list of expectations.
first wrong move for a submissive, having expectations.
Anyways back to my solution to the war zone.
Next meeting I arrange it will be in a less threatening place then a cafe. Goodness only knows why they think a cafe is threatening, maybe because I expect them to pay.
So lets say meet at the lovely castle close to my house, we can walk, talk and see the castle gardens then I tell the submissive I have something for them to do for me.
I will blindfold them and take them back to my house. Walk the submissive up the stairs and into my spare room, when taking the blindfold off they see before them a room that needs the wooden floors need to be put down.
I order the submissive to strip down and then start laying the floor. After the task is finished they can crawl to me, kiss my feet and thank me for letting them be a part of making my life easier. I place the blindfold back on the submissive, I take them to the attic and then I will have a lovely reward waiting. **evil grin**
After all is said and done I once again blindfold the submissive and take him back to the castle.
Is this not a win win situation ?
these are the points I see as win win
1. The submissive does not see my messy house.
2. I get things slowly finished in the house
3. The submissive feels honoured that he has helped me/made my life easier
4. The submissive gets a reward/session for pleasing me
The happy ending is, he wants to meet me at the castle again and the next time I get some painting or dusting done.
In the end I can stop using the blindfold in the house as it will not look like a war zone.
Then again I just love blindfolds.
Sadistic spanks
Severity
Friday, May 25, 2007
Seeking Severity
When meeting people in the "lifestyle" the one question I am always asked (by a submissive) is what do I look for in a sub/slave? The answer is quiet simple, honesty and respect, isn't that what we all look for in a partner?
In the BDSM, D/s world people try to push us all under the one umbrella and that just does not work. I myself am more D/s then BDSM, to me, my point of view is that D/s (Dominance, Submission) is more the relationship/lifestyle as BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism) is more the activity/play that spices up life.
I am no weekend BDSM'er, After giving a male a good spanking and session there is no way when that bedroom door is open that he will turn to me and say " right now put the garbage out" I am the Dominant in the relationship at all times and the male knows who he is and where his place is. No I am not on a power trip as many say and think, this is my nature it is who I have always been and will always be.
My desires (many call them kinks) vary far and wide and are not the desires of others.
Some love bondage and spankings, others foot worship or ass worship. Me I am simple, I like the above and more ;-)
you may need one huge umbrella to try to fit me under.
So when seeking a submissive, a partner I look for honesty, respect, to be treated like a lady as that is what I am, and your role? be a gentleman in public and my whipping pole, boot licking, ass worshiping, frenchmaid, slut boy in the bedroom.
Sadistic spanks
Severity
In the BDSM, D/s world people try to push us all under the one umbrella and that just does not work. I myself am more D/s then BDSM, to me, my point of view is that D/s (Dominance, Submission) is more the relationship/lifestyle as BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism) is more the activity/play that spices up life.
I am no weekend BDSM'er, After giving a male a good spanking and session there is no way when that bedroom door is open that he will turn to me and say " right now put the garbage out" I am the Dominant in the relationship at all times and the male knows who he is and where his place is. No I am not on a power trip as many say and think, this is my nature it is who I have always been and will always be.
My desires (many call them kinks) vary far and wide and are not the desires of others.
Some love bondage and spankings, others foot worship or ass worship. Me I am simple, I like the above and more ;-)
you may need one huge umbrella to try to fit me under.
So when seeking a submissive, a partner I look for honesty, respect, to be treated like a lady as that is what I am, and your role? be a gentleman in public and my whipping pole, boot licking, ass worshiping, frenchmaid, slut boy in the bedroom.
Sadistic spanks
Severity
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