Seeking Severity

When meeting people in the "lifestyle" the one question I am always asked (by a submissive) is what do I look for in a sub/slave? The answer is quiet simple, honesty and respect, isn't that what we all look for in a partner?
In the BDSM, D/s world people try to push us all under the one umbrella and that just does not work. I myself am more D/s then BDSM, to me, my point of view is that D/s (Dominance, Submission) is more the relationship/lifestyle as BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism) is more the activity/play that spices up life.

I am no weekend BDSM'er, After giving a male a good spanking and session there is no way when that bedroom door is open that he will turn to me and say " right now put the garbage out" I am the Dominant in the relationship at all times and the male knows who he is and where his place is. No I am not on a power trip as many say and think, this is my nature it is who I have always been and will always be.

My desires (many call them kinks) vary far and wide and are not the desires of others.
Some love bondage and spankings, others foot worship or ass worship. Me I am simple, I like the above and more ;-)
you may need one huge umbrella to try to fit me under.

So when seeking a submissive, a partner I look for honesty, respect, to be treated like a lady as that is what I am, and your role? be a gentleman in public and my whipping pole, boot licking, ass worshiping, frenchmaid, slut boy in the bedroom.

Sadistic spanks

Severity