It's all about

I have many conversations with Dominants, Females and Males it amazes me how many do not have a clue, A clue about many aspects which are very important in this lifestyle, including lack of knowledge to do with the human body, my goodness somethings they say they do I am surprised they have not killed anyone yet!
Anyways I am off track of the point I want to cover here. I find it strange how so many Dominants will not even give a second glance to someone if they say they are new and exploring the lifestyle from every angle. I do not know why this is and the answers I get from the Dominants when I ask them why they do not want to be with a beginner the answer I get is "I do not have the time to train them or the desire to train them" , I myself find the beginners the most interesting.
Here is my 2 cents worth, submission comes from the heart, if you have it there naturally then there is no training now is there? the basis it there, the only things you need to "train" them in is how YOU as the Dominant like to be pleased, As stated above, I believe submission comes from the heart and stems out, expressing itself through the bodies actions, every category of submission, from sissy to pain slut.
Do not come to me as an "experienced" submissive and TELL ME what you want or inform me "Well my ex Mistress done it this way" good for you, you learnt how she liked to be pleased, it does not mean I like it that way also! Do not top me from the bottom boy!
As where a beginner is just so open to everything, had little or no experience and they just want to please, do anything to please, ok they tell you things they fantasies about and it is always nice to remember that as 1 thing I tell everyone I meet, I do not punish with spankings, no, I punish with ignoring you, now if you please me, then you get a reward, you never know maybe you please me very well and I let you pick the reward ;-)
So here is the bottom line people.
Come with no expectation and you will not be let down.